Remembering Raymond Memorial Wall

On the morning of Wednesday, October 30, we made the difficult but necessary decision to euthanize Raymond the mule due to a small scrotal hernia that occluded the affected loops of his small intestine.

We believe that Raymond was in his late 20s. He was the offspring of a wild Banker mare and a donkey that lived with the herd before there was a domestic livestock ordinance in place. He was actually Raymond Jr (or maybe even Raymond III) – his sire the donkey was the original Raymond. He was also known by locals as Jack, Rebel, Burrito, and probably a few other choice nicknames over the years.

Raymond spent most of his life in the wild and lived just like the horses – he had a harem of mares, raised foals (even though they weren’t biologically his – mules are sterile), and fought other stallions for territory. He had a reputation for being fierce, and most of the stallions gave him a wide berth. Because he was a hybrid, Raymond did not have all of the physical adaptations we see with the Banker horses and as a result had issues with his hooves throughout much of his life. When he was younger they would grow out and break off without any intervention, but as he got older and less active he was unable to self-trim. Late in 2017 we sedated Raymond and trimmed his feet in the field, which helped him for a while. But by the following year they had grown back out and he had become severely lame, so we made the decision to take him to the farm where we’d be able to provide him the care he needed.

We were a little worried that Raymond would have a hard time adapting to life on the farm, but he quickly showed us that we should never underestimate him. He settled right in and figured out how to wrap us around his hooves, and for the next five years our lives would revolve around him. We were able to correct many of the issues with his hooves and keep him sound and comfortable, he was put on a diet more appropriate for a mule his age, and he even agreed to being halter trained. We built him his own pasture where he didn’t have to worry about other horses challenging him (turns out he really wasn’t all that fierce, he was just very defensive) and we did our best to accommodate and indulge in all of his many quirks and idiosyncrasies. After we rescued Blossom last year she and Raymond lived together at the farm as they had in the wild, and they were both so happy to have each other’s company.

Our goal for Raymond, especially over the last year or so, was to keep him content and comfortable. We knew that should he become seriously ill there wasn’t much we could do for him due to his age, other underlying health issues, his temperament, and the fact that we could no longer safely anesthetize him. Quality of life was the most important part of his care plan, and he was definitely a very happy mule right up to the moment he passed away. It doesn’t make the loss any easier or less heartbreaking, but there is certainly a lot of comfort to be taken from that.

Finding the words that fully encapsulate Raymond’s extraordinary life and his place in our history is proving to be quite difficult. There will never be another one like him, and his death is the end of an era. He is the closing chapter on a way of life that does not exist here anymore. He was everything a Banker is supposed to be – resilient, adaptable, smart. He was truly the salt of the earth.

We will remember him fondly and miss him dearly. It’s way too quiet around here without him hollering at us.

Raymond touched so many lives and was adored by so many people. We’d like for you to help us write his eulogy by visiting this special page on our website that we’ve set up for him. Please share your memories and photographs with everyone so that we can celebrate his life together.

Rest well, Raymond.

REMEMBERING RAYMOND MEMORIAL WALL

Elsie C.

Chesapeake, Virginia

My first visit to the rescue farm was to meet Raymond. I had done a wild horse tour and then a friend had sent a donation to the CWHF as a birthday present. The more I read up on these bankers and the wonderful work CWHF does the more I wanted to help.

I browsed the horses to sponsor and came across Raymond…. It was instant love!

His can do attitude living in the wild (collecting his own harem of mares) he never acted like he was different from the other wild stallions.

I signed up to sponsor him on the spot.

Arriving at the farm the staff were not at all fazed by my question of “where does Raymond live” heading over to his paddock I caught sight of him casually grazing but aware of this human heading his way.

Apparently I was worthy of his acknowledgment as he stopped grazing and came over to the gate and allowed me to give him a quick scratch before he went back to his grass.

I have since visited him every year and become a member of CWHF.

Thank you Raymond for being a true pioneer for the different, may you run wild and free on the Dunes, sure footed and the wind at your back ❤️

Joy G.

Lincolnton, North Carolina

My husband and I had the pleasure of meeting Raymond at one of your Wednesday open house events this past May. As soon as we got there, we asked “Where is Raymond?!?” He was stubborn at first and he and Blossom would entertain us talking to them but as we stood there, Raymond finally came over to get a brief scratch from my husband. He will be missed by us all who follow and love these magnificent animals. Rest easy, sweet Raymond.

Lynne R.

Virginia Beach, Virginia

I was just at the Farm on my birthday 10/12 and met Raymond in person! I’m so heartbroken to learn you have passed, but happy you had an excellent life at the Farm. You were busy eating that day in my picture attached. Rest in Peace sweet Raymond ❤️

Bonnie S.

Centreville, Virginia

My family got to meet Raymond on the farm. He actually came up to us at the fence and let us have a conversation with him. He was sweet and charming. We will always have great memories of him from that day and hearing about him. He’s a true legend and will be missed.

Krista M.

Norfolk, Virginia

My husband and I traveled from Virginia to meet Raymond when he was brought to the farm. We love all the stories we’ve read and heard about him so it was an honor to meet such a legend!! We also got to bring our grandson to meet him and he LOVED the farm. Rest in Peace Raymond 💜

Eleanor S.

Grandy, North Carolina

Raymond was such a special animal and I always looked for him when I visited the farm’s Open House events. I loved his spirit and his spunk, and how sometimes he’d come over to say Hi and then other times totally ignore too. I was so happy to learn that Raymond was reunited with Blossom when she had to come off the beach and to the farm. I’m glad these old friends had some additional time with each other. This news hits me so hard. I am heartbroken. I hope Raymond knew how much he was loved.

Tara A.

Hampton, Virginia

We were so excited to see him in Aug of 2018. So very sorry he’s gone. But what a life 🩵